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A Private Man
- Author
- Stephanie Sy-Quia
- Narrator
- John Sackville
- Publisher
- Pan Macmillan
- Publish Date
- 19 February 2026
- Run Time
- 7 hours 1 minute
- Format
- Audiobook
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What to expect
SHORTLISTED FOR THE WATERSTONES DEBUT FICTION PRIZE
SHORTLISTED FOR THE ORWELL PRIZE FOR FICTION
‘If I had to pick a favourite from the year so far, it would be this’ - Pandora Sykes
‘Lush, evocative and sexy’ – The Sunday Times
‘A thrilling love story of intellect and passion’ – The Observer
‘Truly outstanding: clever, passionate and as clean as a bone’ – Melissa Harrison
‘A heady brew . . . Pulsing with sensuality’ – Daily Mail
‘I couldn't put it down’ – The Independent
Rome, 1953. David is young, handsome, charismatic and sworn to celibacy. He is freshly ordained and about to return to England to begin life as a priest. Devotion to God is all he’s ever known.
In London, Margaret is entangled in an impossible love affair. Committed to living on her own terms without sacrificing her faith, she becomes drawn to a women’s movement challenging the archaic rules of the Church.
When they are thrown together in David's countryside parish, something ignites in each of them, and so begins a decades-long secret with consequences that will reverberate throughout the generations.
READERS LOVE A PRIVATE MAN
‘I just love everything about this book’ *****
‘Lives and breathes along with you as you read’ *****
‘Radiating warmth, tinged by inevitable sadness. I loved it’ *****
‘Beautifully written and deeply moving’ *****
‘A work of quiet power that leaves you bereft at its end’ *****
Critics Review
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Lush, evocative and sexy . . . A truly impressive debut novel
The Sunday Times
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A deft work of fiction . . . Sy-Quia is wonderfully interested in beauty, conveying it with a poet’s gift for compression and echo . . . A novel stiff with tension, with sorrow, fear and disappointment wound into its most ecstatic and transcendent moments
Alex Clark, The Observer
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I loved A Private Man. Sy-Quia writes beautifully and energetically about faith and food and clothes and sex. Her prose embraces beauty and her characters are complex and compelling. It’s a rare pleasure to read this novel
Sarah Moss, author of Ripeness
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A rich, elegant and textured novel full of quiet, beautiful revolutions, which sparks with erotic friction. A Private Man is a brilliant debut about secrets and belief, about the collision of lives, and about the liberation of being remade
Seán Hewitt, author of Open, Heaven
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A Private Man is a warm, tender novel, written with such beauty and precision that it frequently stopped me in my tracks. I read it slowly, carefully, marvelling at an image, savouring each glint and turn
Alex Hyde, author of Violets
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Beautiful . . . A story of slow-burn romance, but also of hard-won friendship, the novel explores faith, duty and love. I couldn't put it down.
'Best books of 2026', The Independent
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A finely crafted story, recognisably written by a poet, with a crystal-clear trajectory and moral position
New Statesman
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Finely wrought . . . A heady brew, serious and ruminative yet pulsing with sensuality
Daily Mail
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Inspired by the author’s grandparents, Stephanie Sy-Quia’s assured debut traces a blazing, illicit romance between a Catholic priest and a feminist theologian in England during the social upheavals of the 1960s
Hamilton Cain, TIME
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A luminous, deeply thoughtful and moving love story. Breathtakingly honest and true on sex, on art, on the analogy between religious and corporeal pleasure, A Private Man is also a meditation on care, faith, doubt and loss. A beautiful and wise novel
Luke Kennard, author of Black Bag
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A Private Man is truly outstanding: clever, passionate and as clean as a bone
Melissa Harrison, author of All Among the Barley
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Stephanie Sy-Quia's novel takes the truly singular story of a truly singular soul and makes it into something approachable, understandable and familiar. This is a novel brimming with empathy, tenderness and wisdom
Aidan Cottrell-Boyce, author of The End of Nightwork
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A thrilling true tale . . . A love story of intellect and passion
The Observer
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Inspired by the author’s grandparents, Stephanie Sy-Quia’s assured debut traces a blazing, illicit romance between a Catholic priest and a feminist theologian in England during the social upheavals of the 1960s
Hamilton Cain, TIME
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The brilliance of the environment, and the luster of Ms. Sy-Quia’s writing, sets the stage for the novel’s illicit love story, which the author has based on the marriage of her grandparents
The Wall Street Journal
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Details
- Author
- Stephanie Sy-Quia
- Narrator
- John Sackville
- Duration
- 7 hours 1 minute
- Release Date
- 19 February 2026
- ISBN
- 9781035052653
- Format
- Audiobook
- Publisher
- Pan Macmillan
- Genre
- Modern and Contemporary romance, Historical fiction, Narrative theme: love / relationships, Narrative theme: politics / economics
Synopsis
Set in mid-century Rome and England, this forbidden slow-burn love story will take your breath awaySHORTLISTED FOR THE WATERSTONES DEBUT FICTION PRIZESHORTLISTED FOR THE ORWELL PRIZE FOR FICTION ‘If I had to pick a favourite from the year so far, it would be this’ - Pandora Sykes ‘Lush, evocative and sexy’ – The Sunday Times‘A thrilling love story of intellect and passion’ – The Observer‘Truly outstanding: clever, passionate and as clean as a bone’ – Melissa Harrison‘A heady brew . . . Pulsing with sensuality’ – Daily Mail‘I couldn't put it down’ – The IndependentRome, 1953. David is young, handsome, charismatic and sworn to celibacy. He is freshly ordained and about to return to England to begin life as a priest. Devotion to God is all he’s ever known.In London, Margaret is entangled in an impossible love affair. Committed to living on her own terms without sacrificing her faith, she becomes drawn to a women’s movement challenging the archaic rules of the Church.When they are thrown together in David's countryside parish, something ignites in each of them, and so begins a decades-long secret with consequences that will reverberate throughout the generations.READERS LOVE A PRIVATE MAN‘I just love everything about this book’ *****‘Lives and breathes along with you as you read’ *****‘Radiating warmth, tinged by inevitable sadness. I loved it’ *****‘Beautifully written and deeply moving’ *****‘A work of quiet power that leaves you bereft at its end’ *****
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