A Truce That Is Not Peace

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THE NUMBER ONE INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER

'The best memoir you will read all year' NICK HORNBY

'A triumph – a meditation on writing, suicide, guilt and silence' GUARDIAN

'A grief memoir in the vein of Joan Didion’s Blue Nights' NEW YORK TIMES

'Darkly moving and heart-wrenchingly funny’ MARIE CLAIRE

'This is memoir perfection … I adored it' CARIAD LLOYD

The internationally bestselling author of Women Talking and All My Puny Sorrows, Miriam Toews, returns with a singular memoir celebrating disobedient memory, wit, writing and life.

‘Why do you write?’ the organiser of a literary event in Mexico City asks Miriam Toews. Each attempted answer from Toews – all of them unsatisfactory to the organiser – surfaces new layers of grief, guilt and futility connected to her sister’s suicide. She has been keeping up, she realises, a decades-old internal correspondence, filling a silence she barely understands. And we, her readers, come to see that the question is as impossible to answer as deciding whether to live life as a comedy or a tragedy.

A Truce That Is Not Peace is the first time Toews has written about her own life in nonfiction. Wildly inventive yet masterfully controlled; wrenching and joyful – this is Miriam Toews at her dazzling best, remaking her world and inventing an astonishing new literary form to contain it.

'[Toews] does not shy away from her own vulnerability, and writes with both candour and humour’ Observer

‘Toews knows exactly how to extract hilarity from horrifying events' The Times

'Nothing short of a masterpiece’ San Francisco Chronicle

‘There are few writers who so fully inhabit the vulnerable space between violence and grace, criticism and compassion, as Toews does' AnOther Magazine

'Brilliant … it broke my heart in the best of ways’ Sharlene Teo, author of Ponti

‘Tragi-comic, and incredibly moving … essential reading for turbulent times’ Laura van den Berg, author of The Third Hotel

‘Toews has done something very rare: shown us a true inner world’ Samuel Graydon, author of Einstein in Time and Space

'An affirmation of Life in all its richness and variety … remarkable’ Celia Paul, author of Self-Portrait

I would have read another thousand chapters’ Catherine Newman, author of Sandwich

‘Piercing and distilled, a masterpiece in vulnerability and performance’ Hannah Pittard, author of We Are Too Many

A Truce That Is Not Peace was a #1 bestseller in Canada in w/c 06/09/2025

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‘This book is a triumph – a meditation on writing, suicide, guilt and silence … an illustration of why she’s one of Canada’s most admired writers’ Guardian, 'Book of the Day'

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‘Toews knows exactly how to extract hilarity from horrifying events … a short, at times very funny account of some of the darkest moments in her life' The Times

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'Discursive, revelatory … As fluent in the comic register as it is in the tragic … this is a grief memoir in the vein of Joan Didion’s Blue Nights' New York Times Book Review

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‘[Toews] does not shy away from her own vulnerability, and writes with both candour and humour’ Observer

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'Wisecracks punctuate the meditative memoir … It’s in the elliptical details, often of domestic life, that Toews communicates the messiness of survival’ Spectator

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n 'Erudite, deeply, darkly moving and heart-wrenchingly funny’ n Marie Clairen

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'A layered confrontation with the deaths, grief, and guilt that have animated her work for nearly 30 years, providing haunting insights on how to live after tragic loss' The Atlantic

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‘A profoundly moving meditation on the frailty of memory and the permanence of loss … nothing short of a masterpiece’ San Francisco Chronicle

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‘There are few writers who so fully inhabit the vulnerable space between violence and grace, criticism and compassion, as Toews does' AnOther Magazine

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‘This is memoir perfection. Toews manages to be funny about life’s hardest moments … I adored it’ Cariad Lloyd, author of You Are Not Alone

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‘Original, autobiographical, deeply painful, funny … A Truce That Is Not Peace is the best memoir you will read all year’ Nick Hornby, author of Just Like You

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‘Beautiful, hilarious, devastating’ Paula Hawkins, author of The Girl On The Train

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‘A brilliant, absorbing, bittersweet memoir … it broke my heart in the best of ways’ Sharlene Teo, author of Ponti

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‘An affirmation of Life in all its richness and variety. This remarkable book will live forever’ Celia Paul, author of Self-Portrait

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