Aspergirls

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What to expect

Award winning handbook for girls and women on the autism spectrum, perceptive and wise reflections and advice .

*Gold Medal Winner in the Sexuality / Relationships Category of the 2011 IPPY Awards*

* Honorary Mention in the 2010 BOTYA Awards Women’s Issues Category *

The award-winning handbook for girls and women on the autism spectrum, perceptive and wise reflections and advice.

Girls with Asperger’s Syndrome are less frequently diagnosed than boys, and even once symptoms have been recognised, help is often not readily available. The image of coping well presented by AS females of any age can often mask difficulties, deficits, challenges, and loneliness.

This is a must-have handbook written by an Aspergirl for Aspergirls, young and old. Rudy Simone guides you through every aspect of both personal and professional life, from early recollections of blame, guilt, and savant skills, to friendships, romance and marriage. Employment, career, rituals and routines are also covered, along with depression, meltdowns and being misunderstood. Including the reflections of over thirty-five women diagnosed as on the spectrum, as well as some partners and parents, Rudy identifies recurring struggles and areas where Aspergirls need validation, information and advice. As they recount their stories, anecdotes, and wisdom, she highlights how differences between males and females on the spectrum are mostly a matter of perception, rejecting negative views of Aspergirls and empowering them to lead happy and fulfilled lives.

This book will be essential reading for females of any age diagnosed with AS, and those who think they might be on the spectrum. It will also be of interest to partners and loved ones of Aspergirls, and anybody interested either professionally or academically in Asperger’s Syndrome.

(P)2019 Hodder & Stoughton Limited

Critics Review

  • Ruby Simone’s approach is hands-on, and her writing style is easy to read. The chapters are short and give good tips to woman and girls with AS and the people closest to them. I don’t know that I believe all the holistic stuff, but I think this book should be required reading for woman and girls who have been diagnosed with AS.

    A Girl Walks into a Bookstore Blog
  • Every chapter deals with the everyday things that occur in life, explaining how you could feel when you’re in love, when you fancy someone, to what you do and should do when going on a date. Sexual relationships and sexual activity are clearly explained, as are how they are affected by sensory issues and whether sex is painful and annoying

    Asperger United
  • It is interesting the way temper meltdowns are described very accurately and are written just as I experience them, including crying, frustration, shouting, yelling, being sarcastic, becoming vicious, feeling faint or dizzy and that temper meltdowns often happen when we are hungry.

    Asperger United
  • This is a very readable and enlightening book for all Aspergrirls, their family, friends and involved others… This thoughtful account enthuses the reader and builds their understanding of the specific needs of Aspergirls; a highly recommended book.

    Youth in Mind
  • In the accessible and relevant ‘Aspergirls’, Rudy Simone takes the reader through the stages of life from childhood to old age, looking at issues such as the Aspergirl’s ‘meltdowns’, ‘stims’ (self-stimulatory behaviour), literal thinking, socialising and sexuality. It is written in a touching, often humorous and very practical style, effectively providing a life manual for females with Asperger Syndrome. The anecdotes from Aspergirls she has interviewed broaden the reader’s insight into what is must be like to live with this syndrome.

    Speech & Language Therapy in Practice
  • In a lovely style, Rudy Simone covers every aspect of personal and professional life, from early recollections of blame, guilt and savant skills to friendships, romance and marriage…Rudy identifies recurring struggles and areas where Aspergirls need validation, information and advice. As they recount their stories, anecdotes and wisdom, she highlights how differences between males and females on the spectrum are mostly a matter of perception and empowers Aspergirls to lead happy and fulfilled lives.

    Human Givens Journal

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