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Guest Privileges by Gaar Adams

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Guest Privileges

Narrator
Gaar Adams
Publisher
Random House
Publish Date
9 May 2024
Run Time
10 hours 32 minutes
Format
Audiobook

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An intimate and illuminating account of queer lives and migration, homemaking and community in the Gulf, from a brilliant new voice in narrative non-fiction

**LONGLISTED FOR THE RSL ONDAATJE PRIZE**


Upon moving to the Gulf States – where penalties for queer acts include deportation, imprisonment, torture and death – Gaar Adams wants to understand why LGBTQ+ migrants might choose to live amid such peril. He begins riskily gathering interviews outside the tightly controlled state media, leading with what he thinks is a simple question:

Isn't it harder for you to make a life here?

But as unforgettable residents share a kaleidoscope of stories – from uproarious Filipino salon workers throwing secret drag parties to a courageous Pakistani farmhand who helps his compatriots smuggle themselves across borders – deeper questions and fault lines begin to emerge alongside the halting steps into Gaar’s own clandestine relationship.

Weaving intimate and illuminating memoir with unprecedented reportage, Guest Privileges is a decade-long journey of dislocation – not just through the Gulf States, but into the very nature of home, belonging and how we form a life and community.

'An eye-opening tour de force' ALEX ESPINOZA
'Exhilarating' SUSAN ORLEAN
'Tender and insightful' MOHAMED TONSY
the world – but into the very nature of home, belonging and how we form a life and community.

©2024 Gaar Adams (P)2024 Penguin Audio

Critics Review

  • Beautifully written, meticulously researched, and deeply felt, Guest Privileges is an exhilarating journey through unfamiliar terrain. It is a story of queerness in the context of the Middle East, but it will be instantly recognizable to anyone who has yearned to feel at home.

    Susan Orlean, author of THE ORCHID THIEF

  • A charming exploration of queer life in the Gulf, filled with years of research, intimate interviews, and personal reflection. Guest Privileges is clear, thoughtful, tender writing about the multi dimensions of places and people. I was captivated and carried.

    Adam Zmith, author of DEEP SNIFF

  • An eye-opening tour de force account skilfully examining how queer people not only build community under threats of imprisonment and death, they live and celebrate and love. An important and necessary contribution to queer literature and an essential one.

    Alex Espinoza, author of CRUISING

  • A tender and insightful book that weaves memoir into a chronicle of queer lives in the Gulf States. Gaar’s writing recognises that the West doesn’t get to dictate what queerness looks like, and illustrates with nuance how queer migrant communities in the Gulf States subvert expectations of what it means to find your home elsewhere.'

    Mohamed Tonsy, author of YOU MUST BELIEVE IN SPRING

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  • Guest Privileges is a vividly reported and luminously reflective inquiry into how queer people love, care for, and sustain one another in the face of oppression, violence, and erasure. Adams’ open-heartedness and willingness to challenge his assumptions create layers of nuance and complexity. This book will stay with me for a long time.

    Nadia Owusu, author of AFTERSHOCKS

  • A magisterial mixture of analysis, commentary and personal travelogue, Gaar Adams gives a voice to a queer community we hear much about, but little from. Yet LGBTQ+ life under the threat of jail - and worse - survives and thrives, offering hope in a world witnessing the concerted rollback of queer rights.

    Hugo Greenhalgh, author of THE DIARIES OF MR LUCAS

  • Unforgettable and remarkable stories… Guest Privileges is a book about the making and making of home, it is about lives unfolding in the danger, lived in secrecy

    London School of Economics

  • A mesmerising succession of intimate disclosures and vivid conversations

    Kirkus, Starred Review

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Details

Author
Gaar Adams
Narrator
Gaar Adams
Duration
10 hours 32 minutes
Release Date
9 May 2024
ISBN
9781529942453
Format
Audiobook
Publisher
Random House
Genre
Memoirs, Autobiography: arts and entertainment, Autobiography: writers, LGBTQIA+ Studies / topics, Travel writing

Synopsis

Brought to you by Penguin.An intimate and illuminating account of queer lives and migration, homemaking and community in the Gulf, from a brilliant new voice in narrative non-fiction**LONGLISTED FOR THE RSL ONDAATJE PRIZE**Upon moving to the Gulf States – where penalties for queer acts include deportation, imprisonment, torture and death – Gaar Adams wants to understand why LGBTQ+ migrants might choose to live amid such peril. He begins riskily gathering interviews outside the tightly controlled state media, leading with what he thinks is a simple question:Isn't it harder for you to make a life here?But as unforgettable residents share a kaleidoscope of stories – from uproarious Filipino salon workers throwing secret drag parties to a courageous Pakistani farmhand who helps his compatriots smuggle themselves across borders – deeper questions and fault lines begin to emerge alongside the halting steps into Gaar’s own clandestine relationship.Weaving intimate and illuminating memoir with unprecedented reportage, Guest Privileges is a decade-long journey of dislocation – not just through the Gulf States, but into the very nature of home, belonging and how we form a life and community.'An eye-opening tour de force' ALEX ESPINOZA'Exhilarating' SUSAN ORLEAN'Tender and insightful' MOHAMED TONSYthe world – but into the very nature of home, belonging and how we form a life and community.©2024 Gaar Adams (P)2024 Penguin Audio

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