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Lessons from a Default Parent
- Author
- Lou Beckett
- Narrator
- Rob Beckett, Lou Beckett
- Publisher
- Dorling Kindersley Ltd
- Publish Date
- 12 February 2026
- Run Time
- 6 hours 40 minutes
- Format
- Audiobook
- Genre
- Self-help, personal development and practical advice, Parenting, parenthood: advice, topics and issues, Relationships and families: advice, topics and issues, Radio / podcasts, Memoirs
- Rating
- 5.0 (1 review)
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What to expect
THE INSTANT SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER, now includes an additional final chapter!
'Funny, reflective and honest. Reading this book is like sitting down with your bestie for a proper mumlife debrief’ – Giovanna Fletcher
‘More demanding than ‘hell’, this is parenting purgatory for authentic women who’ve put their lives on hold to be mummy’ – Katherine Ryan
‘A brilliant, comforting and funny read for any default parent’ – Ellie Taylor
What nobody tells you about parenthood, from one ‘silent partner’ behind the Parenting Hell podcast. Now with a brand-new chapter charting the uprising of default parents everywhere!
This BESTSELLING audiobook is for all the defaults out there – bored out of their eyeballs or so overwhelmed they could scream expletives into the wind for a solid hour – to know their invisible labour is seen and valued.
School-run coordinator, party planner, clubs organiser, laundry sorter… and maybe even a ‘real’ job on top! Sound exhaustingly familiar? From assumptions surrounding who is going to stay at home with the kids to the never-ending list of school admin, being ‘the default parent’ rears its head in a plethora of ways.
With heartfelt and hilarious advice, Lou Beckett provides much-needed comfort and community for the one who is depended on the most (and often feels appreciated the least), and maybe – just maybe – how we can begin to rebalance the parenting scales and muddle through a little better, together.
With exclusive audio content with her other half, Rob Beckett!
Read by the author, Lou Beckett, who is a mother of two, ex-secondary school teacher, and wife to Rob Beckett. The (mostly) silent participant of the incredibly successful Parenting Hell podcast (spoken about, not to, except for the occasional 'right to reply' episodes), she can speak about the similarly ‘silent’ issues: default parenting, emotional labour, and managing the mental load of parenthood. Her popular blog post, A Very Long Whinge, prompted many ‘me too’ moments from parents.
© 2026 Lou Beckett © 2026 DK Audio
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Details
- Author
- Lou Beckett
- Narrator
- Rob Beckett, Lou Beckett
- Duration
- 6 hours 40 minutes
- Release Date
- 12 February 2026
- ISBN
- 9780241770917
- Format
- Audiobook
- Publisher
- Dorling Kindersley Ltd
- Genre
- Self-help, personal development and practical advice, Parenting, parenthood: advice, topics and issues, Relationships and families: advice, topics and issues, Radio / podcasts, Memoirs
- Rating
- 5.0(1 review)
- Narration
- 5.0(1 review)
Synopsis
THE INSTANT SUNDAY TIMES BESTSELLER, now includes an additional final chapter!'Funny, reflective and honest. Reading this book is like sitting down with your bestie for a proper mumlife debrief’ – Giovanna Fletcher‘More demanding than ‘hell’, this is parenting purgatory for authentic women who’ve put their lives on hold to be mummy’ – Katherine Ryan‘A brilliant, comforting and funny read for any default parent’ – Ellie TaylorWhat nobody tells you about parenthood, from one ‘silent partner’ behind the Parenting Hell podcast. Now with a brand-new chapter charting the uprising of default parents everywhere!This BESTSELLING audiobook is for all the defaults out there – bored out of their eyeballs or so overwhelmed they could scream expletives into the wind for a solid hour – to know their invisible labour is seen and valued.School-run coordinator, party planner, clubs organiser, laundry sorter… and maybe even a ‘real’ job on top! Sound exhaustingly familiar? From assumptions surrounding who is going to stay at home with the kids to the never-ending list of school admin, being ‘the default parent’ rears its head in a plethora of ways.With heartfelt and hilarious advice, Lou Beckett provides much-needed comfort and community for the one who is depended on the most (and often feels appreciated the least), and maybe – just maybe – how we can begin to rebalance the parenting scales and muddle through a little better, together.With exclusive audio content with her other half, Rob Beckett!Read by the author, Lou Beckett, who is a mother of two, ex-secondary school teacher, and wife to Rob Beckett. The (mostly) silent participant of the incredibly successful Parenting Hell podcast (spoken about, not to, except for the occasional 'right to reply' episodes), she can speak about the similarly ‘silent’ issues: default parenting, emotional labour, and managing the mental load of parenthood. Her popular blog post, A Very Long Whinge, prompted many ‘me too’ moments from parents.© 2026 Lou Beckett © 2026 DK Audio
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