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Losing Ourselves by Jay L. Garfield

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Losing Ourselves

Narrator
Eric Meyers
Publisher
Princeton University Press
Publish Date
13 December 2022
Run Time
6 hours 51 minutes
Format
Audiobook
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This audiobook narrated by Eric Meyers reveals why you don't have a self—and why that's a good thing
In Losing Ourselves, Jay Garfield, a leading expert on Buddhist philosophy, offers a brief and radically clear account of an idea that at first might seem frightening but that promises to liberate us and improve our lives, our relationships, and the world. Drawing on Indian and East Asian Buddhism, Daoism, Western philosophy, and cognitive neuroscience, Garfield shows why it is perfectly natural to think you have a self—and why it actually makes no sense at all and is even dangerous. Most importantly, he explains why shedding the illusion that you have a self can make you a better person.
Examining a wide range of arguments for and against the existence of the self, Losing Ourselves makes the case that there are not only good philosophical and scientific reasons to deny the reality of the self, but that we can lead healthier social and moral lives if we understand that we are selfless persons. The book describes why the Buddhist idea of no-self is so powerful and why it has immense practical benefits, helping us to abandon egoism, act more morally and ethically, be more spontaneous, perform more expertly, and navigate ordinary life more skillfully. Getting over the self-illusion also means escaping the isolation of self-identity and becoming a person who participates with others in the shared enterprise of life.
The result is a transformative book about why we have nothing to lose—and everything to gain—by losing our selves.

Critics Review

  • "Popular books on the illusion of self tend to be crass and sensationalist, the academic ones dull and turgid. Jay L. Garfield has successfully followed the less trodden middle way. As a result, the promise of losing yourself in a book has never been more literal."---Julian Baggini, Times Literary Supplement

    Times Literary Supplement

  • "Passionate, logical, and thought-provoking."—David Greder, Reading Religion

    Reading Religion

  • "Incisive. . . .This book makes a valuable contribution."—David Lorimer, Paradigm Explorer

    Paradigm Explorer

  • "This concise volume facilitates an intriguing philosophical dialogue, presenting to its readers an opportunity (as well as a manual of responsibility) to find humans' right position as a part of the world and not against it."—Huỳnh Cao Nhựt Quang, Religious Studies Review

    Religious Studies Review

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Details

Author
Jay L. Garfield
Narrator
Eric Meyers
Duration
6 hours 51 minutes
Release Date
13 December 2022
ISBN
9780691251394
Format
Audiobook
Publisher
Princeton University Press
Genre
Buddhism, Social and political philosophy

Synopsis

This audiobook narrated by Eric Meyers reveals why you don't have a self—and why that's a good thing In Losing Ourselves, Jay Garfield, a leading expert on Buddhist philosophy, offers a brief and radically clear account of an idea that at first might seem frightening but that promises to liberate us and improve our lives, our relationships, and the world. Drawing on Indian and East Asian Buddhism, Daoism, Western philosophy, and cognitive neuroscience, Garfield shows why it is perfectly natural to think you have a self—and why it actually makes no sense at all and is even dangerous. Most importantly, he explains why shedding the illusion that you have a self can make you a better person. Examining a wide range of arguments for and against the existence of the self, Losing Ourselves makes the case that there are not only good philosophical and scientific reasons to deny the reality of the self, but that we can lead healthier social and moral lives if we understand that we are selfless persons. The book describes why the Buddhist idea of no-self is so powerful and why it has immense practical benefits, helping us to abandon egoism, act more morally and ethically, be more spontaneous, perform more expertly, and navigate ordinary life more skillfully. Getting over the self-illusion also means escaping the isolation of self-identity and becoming a person who participates with others in the shared enterprise of life. The result is a transformative book about why we have nothing to lose—and everything to gain—by losing our selves.

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