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Maggie & Me

Narrator
Damian Barr
Publisher
Bloomsbury Publishing
Publish Date
30 April 2026
Run Time
7 hours 27 minutes
Format
Audiobook
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Bloomsbury presents Maggie & Me written and read by Damian Barr

A unique, tender and witty memoir of surviving the tough streets of small town Scotland during the Margaret Thatcher years
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'Shocking and funny in equal measure, and will have you weeping with laughter and sorrow' Independent on Sunday

'A work of stealthy genius' Maggie O'Farrell

'Certain memoirs catch a moment and seem to define it, bottle it ... hugely entertaining' Sunday Times

It's 12 October 1984. An IRA bomb blows apart the Grand Hotel in Brighton. Miraculously, Margaret Thatcher survives. In small-town Scotland, eight-year-old Damian Barr watches in horror as his mum rips her wedding ring off and packs their bags. He knows he, too, must survive.

Damian, his sister and his Catholic mum move in with her sinister new boyfriend while his Protestant dad shacks up with the glamorous Mary the Canary. Divided by sectarian suspicion, the community is held together by the sprawling Ravenscraig Steelworks. But darkness threatens as Maggie takes hold: she snatches school milk, smashes the unions and makes greed good. Following Maggie's advice, Damian works hard and plans his escape. He discovers that stories can save your life and - in spite of violence, strikes, AIDS and Clause 28 - manages to fall in love dancing to Madonna in Glasgow's only gay club.

Maggie & Me is a touching and darkly witty memoir about surviving Thatcher's Britain; a story of growing up gay in a straight world and coming out the other side in spite of, and maybe because of, the iron lady.

Damian Barr's critically acclaimed debut novel, YOU WILL BE SAFE HERE, also available now.

Critics Review

  • Shocking and funny in equal measure, and will have you weeping with laughter and sorrow

    Independent on Sunday

  • The wonderful story of a remarkable man, Maggie & Me is heartbreaking and heartwarming. As gripping as a thriller, laugh-out-loud funny and deeply touching, this book will resonate long after you finish it. A triumph

    SJ Watson, author of Before I Go to Sleep

  • Out of poverty, brutality and prejudice, Damian Barr builds something riveting, touching and painfully funny. His account of growing up under Thatcher's regime defines the experience of a generation. At once personal and universal, Maggie & Me is a work of stealthy genius

    Maggie O’Farrell

  • A marvellous memoir – wrenching, funny and wise. I loved it!

    Joanne Harris

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  • This amazing book tells the story of an appalling childhood with truth and clarity unsmudged by self-pity. It grips from beginning to end and leaves the reader elated at the fact that such experiences can be overcome and produce a man who can write a book so vivid, so unsentimentally forgiving, and so memorable

    Diana Athill

  • This book will break your heart and make you angry; then it will lift your heart and make you glad; because Damian Barr has transmuted a grim childhood into a work of art and brought forth beauty from ashes

    Richard Holloway

  • That Damian Barr survived his childhood is testament to his startling courage and determination.That he was then able to write about the experience with such wit, verve and candour is equally astonishing. Maggie & Me is a cause for celebration on all kinds of levels. Rejoice!

    Rupert Thomson

  • Damian Barr sifts through the wreckage of a horrific childhood and manages to extract humour, generosity of spirit and ultimately joy, and he does it with a literary élan that had me re-reading whole paragraphs, just for the pleasure of it.

    To say I loved it doesn't begin to convey the mixture of emotions - tears, laughter, anger - I felt while reading it. This book should be required reading for children who need to know that there is life beyond an appalling beginning, and for politicians who prefer to look the other way

    Jojo Moyes author of Me Before You

  • Like all too few memoirs, in a bloated, me-me age, Maggie & Me ends all too soon. Imagine one of the sharper Mitford sisters cruelly reborn into the family from Shameless and you’ve an idea of the treat in store. Barr tells his engaging, sad-funny story of a camp, bright lad in dire circumstances in Thatcher-era Motherwell in such a beguilingly confiding, arm-linking style, that I felt I'd made a new best friend only to lose them to a world of glittering opportunities. Read this at once before someone films it, as they most surely will

    Patrick Gale

  • This is the most vital, visceral memoir since Jeanette Winterson’s Why Be Happy When You Can Be Normal? … Barr’s depiction is so pungent, so earth-shattering it's a universal story of alienation – one for anyone who's ever felt desperate to escape. His childhood, evoked with such cheek-biting tenderness, now seems more real and more Technicolor than my own. I won't be happy until everyone reads this book

    Patrick Strudwick

  • Timely confessional – zestfully observed, sharply written, and sprinkled with more lyricism and humour than a memoir of misery in Motherwell suggests

    Independent

  • Maggie & Me is a perfect chip supper of a memoir: nostalgic, tart, crisp and seductive. It's also sad, kind, witty, and sexy. And alarmingly educational

    Louisa Young

  • Brilliantly observed, searingly intimate and painfully truthful, Maggie & Me brought the eighties back to me at the same time as making me question my established views of the whole decade. In other words, like the very best books, it changed me a little

    Sathnam Sanghera author of The Boy with the Topknot

  • ‘A nuanced, subtle and original account ... What could have been a flip idea with no real substance turns out to be a memoir which is both personally moving and a valuable historical document. Barr’s style is conversational, intimate and convincing, and he resists every opportunity to show off. He holds his nerve tackling the unfashionableness of his thesis – that Thatcher inspired even those she seemed to despise – and makes us smile along the way

    Literary Review

  • Certain memoirs catch a moment and seem to define it, bottle it ... Damian Barr, I suspect, is about to do something of the same with this hugely entertaining book ... Full to the brim with poignancy, humour, brutality and energetic and sometimes shimmering prose, the book confounds one’s assumptions about those years and drenches the whole era in an emotionally charged comic grandeur. It is hugely affecting

    Sunday Times

  • Beyond his Maggie cult, this memoir can boast a humour, bravery and brio that cross all party lines

    Independent

  • This memoir of deprivation and survival is shrewdly constructed and written with a winning dry humour

    Guardian

  • A brilliant, laugh-out-loud and profoundly moving Eighties memoir

    GQ

  • An inspiring read

    Marie Claire

  • By turns funny, tender, and heartbreaking, it is also a useful primer for anyone too young to remember what life was like in the industrial areas of Britain enduring the changes wrought by Thatcherism... A gifted storyteller, weaving skilfully back and forth through time, and his unfussy prose flows delightfully... Splendid

    Independent on Sunday

  • Hugely affecting memoir

    Sunday Times

  • Unlike most volumes of this kind, Maggie & Me is short on jokes and long on raw, pungent atmosphere. Barr has a keen eye for wincingly evocative detail... Expressed with a kind of grim lyricism

    New Statesman

  • A touching and darkly humorous memoir... Topical and heartfelt

    TNT Magazine

  • Witty, gritty and inspiring

    Glamour

  • Maggie and Me by Damian Barr has a startling new take on the former PM

    Herald

  • Comi-tragic memoir

    Evening Standard

  • A refreshing, affecting and ultimately triumphant account

    Metro

  • Timely confessional – zestfully observed, sharply written, and sprinkled with more lyricism and humour than a memoir of misery in Motherwell suggests

    Independent

  • A real storyline, touching and personal, and I found myself laughing

    Mail on Sunday

  • [A] talented writer ... Barr captures very well how it is possible to learn and to love even in the most unpropitious environment. His book is the better for the strange loyalty it shows to the place he fled

    Daily Telegraph

  • I was dazzled by the energy and verve of Damian Barr’s memoir, Maggie & Me ... I’ve been shoving copies into people’s hands all year

    Evening Standard

  • Damian Barr’s wonderful memoir Maggie & Me … was the coming-of-age story of this year

    Observer

  • Written with beautiful clarity and no self-pity – I look forward to seeing what he does next

    Observer

  • Damian Barr’s Maggie & Me is easily my favourite book of 2013 ... There isn’t a trace of bitterness in the beautiful book. Only the radiant eloquence of a man whose courage and humanity shine from its pages

    New Statesman

  • Charming, life-enhancing

    The Times

  • Barr’s moving, funny, inspiring memoir of growing up gay in Motherwell is a virtuoso piece of autobiography that paints a vivid portrait of our country’s recent past

    Metro

  • The surprisingly funny and positive story of growing up gay in a working-class town in Thatcher’s Britain. It’s worth the cover price for the Dirty Dancing scene alone

    Independent on Sunday

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Details

Author
Damian Barr
Narrator
Damian Barr
Duration
7 hours 27 minutes
Release Date
30 April 2026
ISBN
9781037207044
Format
Audiobook
Publisher
Bloomsbury Publishing
Genre
Memoirs, Autobiography: writers

Synopsis

Bloomsbury presents Maggie & Me written and read by Damian BarrA unique, tender and witty memoir of surviving the tough streets of small town Scotland during the Margaret Thatcher years________________________'Shocking and funny in equal measure, and will have you weeping with laughter and sorrow' Independent on Sunday'A work of stealthy genius' Maggie O'Farrell'Certain memoirs catch a moment and seem to define it, bottle it ... hugely entertaining' Sunday TimesIt's 12 October 1984. An IRA bomb blows apart the Grand Hotel in Brighton. Miraculously, Margaret Thatcher survives. In small-town Scotland, eight-year-old Damian Barr watches in horror as his mum rips her wedding ring off and packs their bags. He knows he, too, must survive. Damian, his sister and his Catholic mum move in with her sinister new boyfriend while his Protestant dad shacks up with the glamorous Mary the Canary. Divided by sectarian suspicion, the community is held together by the sprawling Ravenscraig Steelworks. But darkness threatens as Maggie takes hold: she snatches school milk, smashes the unions and makes greed good. Following Maggie's advice, Damian works hard and plans his escape. He discovers that stories can save your life and - in spite of violence, strikes, AIDS and Clause 28 - manages to fall in love dancing to Madonna in Glasgow's only gay club. Maggie & Me is a touching and darkly witty memoir about surviving Thatcher's Britain; a story of growing up gay in a straight world and coming out the other side in spite of, and maybe because of, the iron lady.Damian Barr's critically acclaimed debut novel, YOU WILL BE SAFE HERE, also available now.

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