Second Life

Amanda Hess is that rare thing, the real deal. Second Life is unexpected, intellectually rigorous, funny, beautiful; and the wisdom is hard-won. A major debut from a profoundly talented writer

Claire Dederer, author of Monsters: A Fan's Dilemma

Second Life is an excellent book. So interesting, astute and beautifully crafted. Amanda Hess interrogates new lands of contemporary parenthood with nuance, curiosity, smarts and heart. I loved it.

Lucy Jones, author of Matrescence

Second Life is a tender, perceptive account of pregnancy and early motherhood - and a stylish confrontation with the demented landscape of digital parenting content. It also happens to be a subtle indictment of a healthcare system that leaves some parents scrolling for alternatives. Hess is a smart, savvy, and generous guide

Anna Wiener, author of Uncanny Valley

Second Life is indispensable ... frank, funny, searingly smart. A must read for anyone who has ever wondered what it means to parent in the digital age and an essential antidote for the information-overload they'll certainly be met with on the internet

Allie Rowbottom, author of Aesthetica

There is no better writer than Amanda Hess to dissect the joys, fears, and humiliations that accompany having children in the information age, and no wittier chaperone through the strange world of surveillance, monetization, bureaucracy, and alternative medicine to which pregnant people and mothers are subjected. Second Life is a sharp, moving, sometimes harrowing, and always funny companion to some of the best and worst things life has to offer

Max Read, editor of Read Max and former editor-in-chief of Gawker

The story of a crisis-born odyssey, Second Life charts a new mother's descent into and re-emergence from the internet's 'pregnant underworld' with clarity, rigor, and tremendous wit. That such a deft a vivisector of our digital age should find herself lost in its churn of data-brokerage, commerce, and myth is a reminder of what we're all up against, and an engine of Amanda Hess's bracing and eloquent memoir

Michelle Orange, author of Pure Flame

New parents spend countless hours staring at our phones, scrolling for the comfort American systems fail to provide us. But pushed to the brink, only Amanda Hess could step through the blue light looking glass - journey through her specific, and our collective, anxiety, dissociation, data points, targeted ads, and apps - and emerge a more sensate, embodied, and sharper critic. The honesty of Second Life takes my breath away

Angela Garbes, author of Essential Labor and Like a Mother

Finally a book about parenthood that acknowledges that the internet is the first place we go to navigate pregnancy. Hess doesn't demonize or valorize it but rather serves as a smart - and very funny - guide to the good, the bad, and the truly weird of how we give birth today

Marisa Meltzer, author of the New York Times bestselling Glossy

What a book! It has the lyricism and intelligence of a literary masterpiece, and the urgency of a thriller; I read it in two sittings. Hess dissects the experience of modern childbearing with surgical precision, even as she holds out her heart. This is the book on motherhood the world needs right now.

Marianne Levy, author of Don’t Forget to Scream

Second Life is not only a book for parents; it's for anyone intrigued (and concerned) by the ways in which our digital footprints impact the circle of life itself

Elle

Smart, funny

Times Literary Supplement