Strangers and Intimates

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Read by the author, Tiffany Jenkins

'Brilliantly original . . . endlessly fascinating and full of surprises'
– Alice Loxton, author of Eighteen

'It is refreshing - and empowering - to read such a nuanced, thoughtful history of this slippery concept' – Kate Fox, author of Watching the English

A Financial Times 'What to read in 2025' Book

From ancient times to our digital present, Strangers and Intimates traces the dramatic emergence of private life, and argues that it is now in mortal danger.

In this sweeping history, acclaimed cultural historian Tiffany Jenkins takes readers on an epic journey, from the strict separations of public and private in ancient Athens to the moral rigidity of the Victorian home, and from the feminists of the 1970s who declared that ‘the personal is political’ to the boundary-blurring demands of our digital age.

Strangers and Intimates is both a celebration of the private realm and a warning: as social media, surveillance and the expectations of constant openness reshape our lives, Jenkins asks a timely question: can private life survive the demands of the twenty-first century?

Critics Review

Compelling . . . This is the sort of history book that makes you look at all history anew'
New Scientist
Jenkins's history of private life is more urgent than ever . . . Lucid and elegant
Telegraph
A brilliantly original line of investigation, taking the reader on an epic journey through the ages . . . endlessly fascinating and full of surprises
Alice Loxton, author of Eighteen
Well written and always provocative
The Observer
Amidst all the current narrow technological determinism, it is refreshing - and empowering - to read such a nuanced, thoughtful history of this slippery concept
Kate Fox, author of Watching the English
From Tudor Treason Trials to Monica Lewinsky and beyond, this book brilliantly deploys the author's deep knowledge of literature, political ideas, as well as the history of law and of leisure . . . a tour de force
David Abulafia, author of The Boundless Sea
From Thomas More and Oliver Cromwell to Jennicam, Big Brother and Monica Lewinsky . . . one of the most thought-provoking books I’ve read in years
Adrian Tinniswood, author of The Power and the Glory
An impassioned argument . . . Jenkins deploys an array of lively anecdotes to make her case. [Strangers and Intimates] is a far-reaching - occasionally dizzying - book
The Financial Times
Essential reading for all those seeking to understand the dynamics of the current privacy crisis, and why it matters that solutions are found
David Vincent, author of A History of Solitude
A highly engaging read, timely, and impressively broad in its scope
Literary Review
A stimulating history
New Statesman
Jenkins delivers a substantial but still nimble exploration of the modern notion of 'private life' . . . An eye-opening study of the value of keeping some things unseen
Publishers Weekly
Superb . . . Every page offers fresh revelations . . . Sharp, insightful analysis.
Spiked

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