Trust is the hard currency of negotiation. This book reveals how to earn it from gunmen to business hard-asses on the bumpy road to resolving the unresolvable

A refreshingly human take on a subject matter that’s too often boiled down to tactics, techniques and pseudoscience. It’s hard to ignore the book’s fundamental takeaways given the diversity of the negotiations they’re drawn from

Jim and Kirk have written a great book, full of very practical tips for different situations, grounded by a philosophy that will help you think differently about the art of negotiation. The war stories from a diverse range of deals and negotiations bring the advice and their vast experience to life in an entertaining, memorable way

In the heat of the moment it’s easy to get blinkered or feel cornered in a negotiation. It’s reassuring to read that it’s not just me who feels this way, but where this book really comes in is the snackable stories that really stick in your mind.

A fascinating read. I’ve always felt that the most successful deals are cemented by establishing a genuine human connection from the outset, and this rich collection of real-life negotiations – from breaking a siege to saving someone from suicide right through the negotiating spectrum to closing M&A deals – totally bears this out

These are not lessons from academic research nor the assertions of self-anointed gurus, but the experience of two professionals for whom negotiation is daily bread. Their real-life stories are fascinating in themselves, but also actionable – whether you’re negotiating with your teenage kids, hostage takers or global corporations

A compelling read and collection of memorable stories to illustrate negotiation techniques and principles. It’s a brilliantly practical way to explain and help the reader to be able to remember and then apply the lessons. The juxtaposition of the life and death scenarios and the commercial settings is fascinating: being able to draw out some similarities but recognising the fundamental differences – you may be able to “spoof” in the latter but not the former!

A clear and methodical approach to negotiation, drawing upon the vast and unique professional experiences of Jim Houghton and Kirk Kinnell in the field. It provides an essential cornerstone for understanding the intricate dynamics of complex negotiation, blending strategic insight with psychological acumen and ethical considerations, offering readers a comprehensive and practical toolkit for navigating challenging negotiation scenarios with precision and principled conduct. A must-read for anyone engaged in difficult negotiation

I have been fortunate to work closely with Kirk for many years now. His skills as a negotiator are invaluable, just like his wisdom. This book is a part of himself. Enjoy!

A very compelling read

I am deeply inspired by Kirk’s approach to negotiation, which he has developed as a former hostage and humanitarian negotiator

Jim and Kirk have combined to produce a book that is both easy to read and yet full of ideas and recounted situations that stay with you, each bringing a sense of the urgency, discipline, energy and hard-won insight required to do what they excel at as seasoned professionals. Negotiation is often a fluid and stressed process, that is very hard to capture within the covers of a book, but through combining their experiences of very different situations, Jim and Kirk have been as successful in that task as they have surely been in the day-to-day negotiating challenges that are the bedrock of their work

This is a book I should have read thirty years ago – it could have made life a lot easier!