Who Wants Normal?

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A groundbreaking memoir about what it means to be a disabled woman in Britain today from the acclaimed journalist and author, including insights and personal stories from over 50 contributors

'No one really talks about it. No one really talks about what it is to be a disabled woman, especially a young one. To go a bit mad. To experience pain or exhaustion or feel 92. To navigate all the standard parts of life - exams, careers, dating - but with a body that is different than everyone else’s.'

Part memoir, part manifesto, and full of Frances Ryan’s trademark warmth, humour and honesty (as well as hard-hitting statistics), Who Wants Normal? explores six facets of life: education, careers, body image, health, relationships and representation, as well as how to survive life's bumps in the road.

It draws on Frances’s own experience, as well as from highly personal interviews with over 50 of Britain's best known women and non-binary people with mental and physical health conditions, including Jameela Jamil, Ruth Madeley, Sophie Morgan, Rosie Jones, Fearne Cotton, Emma Barnett, Tanni Grey-Thompson, Marsha de Cordova MP, Ellie Goldstein and Katie Piper.

Who Wants Normal? lifts the lid off a subject that is too often shrouded in stereotypes and silence. It offers support, inspiration and a sense of solidarity to the 1 in 4 women with long-term health conditions – and will open the eyes of anyone wanting to better understand what life is really like with a disability.

'We all need this book' Jameela Jamil

‘A razor sharp manifesto by one of Britain's most vital voices’ Yomi Adegoke

'Exceptional' British Vogue


'Beautiful, vital and important. I loved it' Jack Thorne

'I've never related to a book more. Disabled or not, you MUST read this' Rosie Jones

'Supercharged relevance [full of] robust analysis and wry humour… readers will find here stories to inspire, enrage and encourage' Observer


© Frances Ryan 2025 (P) Penguin Audio 2025

Critics Review

A razor sharp, super-smart manifesto by one of the most vital voices in British journalism today. This guide is a crucial call to action not just for disabled women, but for everyone who wants to have a better understanding of what it means to live with a disability
Yomi Adegoke
This book is beautiful, vital and important. I loved it
Jack Thorne
Frances has long been one of my writing heroes - this book is typically smart, funny, clarifying and enraging
Eva Wiseman
This superb book is a rallying cry for true equality for disabled people. Full of shocking stats, real life experiences and humour, it made me angry, laugh and gasp
Victoria Derbyshire
The must-read manifesto...this new book blends memoir and practical insight in an unmissable call to action...it covers education, careers, health, body image, relationships, representation and more
Stylist u2013 26 must-read books that will be massive this year
Illuminating and spirited - such a necessary book
Marina Hyde
One of the most interesting and important writers working in the UK today
Nish Kumar
Disability is an unnecessarily awkward subject for far too many people given the millions and millions of people within our society who engage with it daily, either due to their own health struggles, or those of someone they love. Frances has a talent for de-stigmatising the conversation and pushing past the uncomfortable to the necessary in an engaging and undeniable fashion. An inimitable voice in disability advocacy. We all need this book
Jameela Jamil
I've never related to a book more. Brilliant, honest and so powerful. Disabled or not, you MUST read this book
Rosie Jones
There are so many 'Yes! That happened to me too!' moments in this book that reading it feels like having a gossipy evening in with the best of friends - the best disabled women friends
Liz Carr

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