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Surrounded by Narcissists

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The funny and practical guide on how to free yourself from the tyranny of narcissists, from the Sunday Times bestselling author of Surrounded by Idiots.

Do you know someone who constantly demands attention, always thinks they’re right and never admits fault? Chances are—you’re dealing with a narcissist.

In this thought-provoking, sanity-saving book, behavioural expert and bestselling author Thomas Erikson helps you understand what makes narcissists tick and, crucially, how to handle them without wearing yourself out in the process.

With the help of the behavioural model made famous in Surrounded by Idiots, Erikson helps you:

Understand what drives narcissists


  • Stay calm and assertive when they push your buttons

  • Communicate effectively without losing your cool

  • Build confidence and resilience in your relationships and at work

    Insightful, entertaining and empowering, Surrounded by Narcissists will help you free yourself from narcissistic agendas so you can pursue a happier, more fulfilling and successful life.

    'Outstanding . . . Erikson impresses with his trademark facility for making research-based discussions accessible and entertaining' Publishers Weekly

    ‘A good resource for understanding how different personalities communicate and deal with feedback…Everyone should read [it]' Business Insider

    Equal parts logical, emotionally astute, and gut-wrenchingly funny…Buy it!' Jim McPartlin, author of The Enneagram at Work

    ‘Everyone can benefit from this bookBooklist

    © Thomas Erikson 2022 (P) Penguin Audio 2022

    Critics Review

    'Outstanding . . . Erikson impresses with his trademark facility for making research-based discussions accessible and entertaining, and readers will appreciate the insightful guidance. This is another home run from Erikson.'
    Publishers Weekly
    Author Thomas Erikson
    Narrator David John
    Duration 11 hours and 1 minutes
    Release Date
    ISBN 9781529191943
    Format Audiobook
    Publisher Ebury Publishing
    Genre Business and Management, Popular science, Self-help, personal development and practical advice
    Availability AU, GB, IE

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