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Who Gets to Have Kids?

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'Reveals the deep roots of the parenthood gap. Vivid and persuasive’ Professor Sarah Franklin

'One of the biggest questions facing modern civilization: whether and how its next generation will come to be' Christine Emba

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For generations, starting a family was an ordinary part of life. But today, there’s a marked gap between how many children people want to have and how many they actually will. In this era of unprecedented opportunity for women, soaring inequality and a changing climate, who gets to have kids, and why?

Spurred by the unexpected obstacles she encountered in her own quest to become a parent, journalist Anna Louie Sussman explores what is keeping us from having the families we desire, as birth rates plummet around the world. As she probes everything from dating to housing, the climate crisis to the nature of work, Sussman shows how decades of policy choices that elevated profits over people and individualism over interdependence have left people increasingly unable to envision a future in which they have children. Reporting from South Korea, Scandinavia, North America, Poland and beyond, Sussman unearths intimate stories that illustrate the deep personal and collective cost when such a fundamental human experience falls so far out of reach.

A singular and timely investigation into how parenthood has been altered by a capitalist system run wild, this is a must-read for anyone seeking to understand the universal challenges and triumphs of becoming a parent in our uncertain age.

Critics Review

‘The high price of fertility is one of the most concerning signs of increasing inequality in today’s society. Sussman reveals the deep roots of the parenthood gap, and diagnoses an urgent problem that affects us all. Vivid and persuasive’ Sarah Franklin, Emeritus Professor of Sociology, University of Cambridge
'A revelatory and deeply humane look at how a pitiless economic system is robbing people of the intimacies that often make life worthwhile' Michelle Goldbergt, author of The Means of Reproduction
'A broad-ranging, personal and tentatively hopeful look at the challenges of fertility' Kirkus
'Incredibly well-researched, featuring many great personal stories, including the author's own. I was gripped' Audrey Ward, author of The Waiting Room
‘The economics alone are damning: greedy jobs, mountains of student debt, ruinous housing costs, and childcare that consumes a full salary. Sussman's book brings us the grinding consequences of those abstractions for those who did everything right, yet still found that starting a family had become inconceivable’ David Autor, co-author of The Work of the Future
‘A passionate, thoughtful, and often movingly poetic exploration of life’s most fundamental questions: Why do so many of us feel so scared of the future? How should we take care of one another? This is certain to be a definitive work’ Suzy Hansen, author of From Life Itself and the Pulitzer Prize-nominated Notes on a Foreign Country
'A beautifully told tale of the most basic thing about us that we find so hard to understand' Danny Dorling, author of Inequality and the 1%
‘Combines in-depth reportage and wry self-excavation to tackle one of the biggest questions facing modern civilization: whether and how its next generation will come to be’ Christine Emba, author of Rethinking Sex: A Provocation
‘Sussman's blend of curiosity and empathy allows the reader to eavesdrop on the most intimate and vulnerable choices a person can make’ Leah Sargeant, author of The Dignity of Dependence
Author Anna Louie Sussman
Narrator Courtney Patterson
Duration 6 hours and 24 minutes
Release Date
ISBN 9780008411749
Format Audiobook
Publisher HarperCollins Publishers
Genre Feminism and feminist theory, Infertility and fertilization, Social and ethical issues, Social discrimination and equal treatment
Availability AU, GB, IE

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